MIRACLE OF THE TWO DRESSES
A big warm hug and a loving hello to all of you in my amazing sensitive empath women’s community! I had this experience the other day and couldn’t wait to tell you about it! It’s so significant for me….and is so integral to the work I do with my clients and students. I’ve always said that I never ask them to do anything I’m not willing to do.
So here I am, sharing another delightful Miracle! Remember, a Miracle is just a shift in energetic vibrational alignment. It simply means that something that ALREADY existed as a wave of energy in the quantum field has now turned into a particle in physical reality.
So on to my Miracle. Years ago when was smaller and I wore a size 6 or 8 I loved buying clothes and I bought a lot of beautiful outfits, and I looked and felt good in everything. Over the last decade I have gained weight and clothes shopping became a less than pleasant adventure.
I have a family event coming up in 3 weeks. Rather than obsessing about what to wear and where to find it, I decided to do the Miracle work. Yes, take the steps to the Art of Miracles process. I did this for at least a month. I actually had a friend badgering me a few months ago that I needed to go out and look for outfits. Nope not time.
So Miracle time yesterday. After lunch and resting, I decided to go out to just one store to see what they had. I took my time browsing and chose an armful of ‘possibles’. I went into the dressing room where the friendly saleswoman had put the dresses I’d chosen to try. I tried on the first dress… Home Run! OMG!!! Loved loved loved it! I was laughing and smiling and….OMG!!
I tried on the next one. Nah, not so much. Hung it back up. Oh well.
I tried on the third one. OMG! This was an even bigger Home Run! I totally adored this one, it fit like a dream and was my favorite eggplant purple color. By now, I was practically beside myself with JOY! The saleswoman had zipped me up with both dresses, and she even exclaimed, “Wow, this is YOUR DAY!!”C
I came out of that store with two beautiful dresses in under forty minutes. What??? They fit beautifully and I felt and looked fabulous in them…. and both on sale to boot. I was sky high!! Seriously!! This felt like a most amazing and loving gift from a truly benevolent Universe. Yes. A Miracle. I’m still breathing it in with joyful gratitude’
Now hehehe, because the Universe has a sense of humor and is always inviting us to grow more, more, more…off we go! I texted two of my dearest friends about my “dresses Miracle” and they were so excited with me! Over the moon, because they know me and my history, etc. So. Yes, mutual joyful celebration! Awesome!
Then against my better judgment…that’s an important fact, I did override my intuition on this one, not something I often do any more… I texted a third friend and after saying the obligatory “Oh, pretty, etc, etc”, she said “Don’t you think you’ll be overdressed in the one for Saturday?” WTF!? I couldn’t believe it! It felt so snarky. It felt judgy and like an attempt to ‘rain on my parade’. Didn’t feel good at all.
I’m no longer much of a people-pleaser so I responded honestly about how her unkindness stung and hurt, and that I was angry. And needed to take some time and distance. We had a bit more of a conversation, I told her that I loved her didn’t want to stay angry at her but that she was way out of line being unkind to me, and that I would talk to her about it sometime in the future, but wasn’t up for it now.
I meditated and did my chakra clearing and balancing process to shift my energy and move out of whatever shadow of victimhood I might have been feeling by that interaction. I did well…got my happy back.
Then I asked my husband to go out for a bite to eat and a glass of Malbec. Being with my beloved and talking this over, I had totally shifted my energy back to high and happy about my delicious Miracle experience
So, this is just my way of saying that it ain’t all bunnies and rainbows. Every time we encounter something unpleasant that feels like a stick in our bicycle spokes, it’s an invitation to no longer be who we don’t want to be any more. The way this played out for me is that in the past I would have held on to anger, resentment, ruminated about it, felt sorry for myself, etc. but this time, in less than two days I had let it go, texted her that we should put this behind us, and made a date to meet her and her husband for dinner soon. We are fine.
That might seem like a small thing but I’m talking about dissolving another level of ancestral patterns. Huge for me, and takes peace to a whole other level.
Something precious I learned a long time ago from a high spiritual teacher is that whenever we manage to move to a higher level…like the amazingly miraculous grace and joy of finding the dresses…whatever stands in the way of moving even higher will come up into our awareness for our attention and healing.
That’s exactly what this was. So it completed the picture. I felt like I was graced with a double Miracle…not only the dresses, but the energetic shift with my friend. My Sacred Self Care.
…and my friend and I are fine after this bump in the road.
We are moving higher and higher at the speed of Light these days…take care of yourselves.
As always, so much more to say about this, and I’d love to know what you think.
I love you.
And as always…
I hope you SPARKLE!
Janice Masters, M.Ed., The Shaman Mama
Offering Depth Psychology, Energy Medicine, Spirituality, Quantum Physics, The Art of Miracles. Supporting the Sensitive Empathic Woman ready to release the past, recover more of her precious self, and renew her power and possibilities.
WHO IS JANICE MASTERS?
Janice Masters is a spiritual awakening coach, a transformation mentor, a Miracle alignment teacher, a spiritual linguistics expert, and an empath’s guide to thriving. With over forty years of experience, twenty-two of them as a successful psychotherapist, and certification in numerous powerful modalities, she is still excited by ongoing personal and professional learning and evolving.
Janice works with clients all over the world from her office in lovely Miami, Florida. Her spiritually transformative work is strongly grounded and practical, focusing on ways to release limiting patterns and establish empowering new ones for more authentic, better living. Janice’s ability to quickly discern long-standing dysfunctional patterns and compassionately express them in language her clients immediately understand, invites energetic shifts into empowered change.