My Dear Empath INDY WOMEN,
Just in case you forgot 😊 INDY stands for I’m Not Done Yet.
Look, I know you’re out there, cause I’m here, and I’m one. I’ve been one, probably will continue to be one till the end of my life. It just means there’s stuff you’re not done with yet, and that’s just an honest appraisal of the fact that there’s always something that we’d like to experience. Isn’t that what life is about!!??
So we don’t have to get all heavy and serious about this. I just would like you to make a list… not set in stone you know! Just make a list of all the things that you’re not done yet with in your life. If you dream of it, think about it, want it, feel the lack of it, then that’s something you’re not done with yet. Simple, right?
And that’s where I come in because I help the women that I work with to uncover. I won’t even call them roadblocks or sinking thinkin. It’s just a way of believing about ourselves that stops us from claiming the power to be, do and have what we really want.
Fundamentally, what I’m talking about is the difference between feeling bad because you haven’t accomplished certain things…and beginning to feel excited because you can look forward to them.
I’m not talking over the moon excited….I’m talking about just letting the energy shift from feeling disappointed in yourself, to feeling enthusiastic, even just a smidge.
So this is the point where you ask yourself how challenging is it to loosen your grasp on that old way of feeling? Not to create a total change, but to just allow the possibility that your feelings could shift a tiny bit in a direction that feels better.
I sort of want to cut to the chase here which is to say…bottom line, you deserve to feel good. You deserve to step out of a critical mode toward yourself, if that’s what’s going on… and into a 100% approving mode of yourself.
Does that sound like fantasy? It really isn’t. Let yourself be uncomfortable with the shift if you need to but allow that the shift is possible…. especially if that is what you want.
If this feels like a direction you’d like to be moving in, and you would like some guidance and really amazing support from someone who’s been there, done that, and really knows the way…then please get in touch with me!
Sending lots of love and blessings,
Jan
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