Essentially I invite them to step up 1 or 2 rungs so we get into that optimal distance space.
It doesn’t feel to them like I’m up in an ivory tower, and it doesn’t feel to me like they’re just not ready.
Every one of them is perfect in terms of the consciousness distance between us, and what they are wanting from me, and what I am able to offer to them.
You know how you want the relationship to feel.
Don’t settle for anything less than that.